Archive for January, 2011

January means a blank slate where I work. Our fiscal year ends December 31st, and therefore all our goals for the year have been hopefully reached and we’re starting to plan what we want to achieve in 2011. This means the month is full of a lot of reflecting. Reflecting on what we set out to do in 2010, how we performed, what were our big successes and what were the areas we need to improve on. This reflection is expressed in our annual review which we spend time working through with our managers.

 Similarly, Adam and I found ourselves doing a bit of an annual review with each other over the holidays. We reflected on all the fun things we did throughout the year together, like first dates, camping, travel, twentyfifthfests and many other great adventures. We reflected on  how our relationship grew and strengthened as we got to know each other better and opened up ourselves to once again be intimate with another person. We also looked at some of the struggles that we had. Times where we felt (more…)


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Status Update


Its been a little while and I’m so excited to be back on the blog. So much is happening that I want to share and its too bad, after I miss a month some of the great details get lost.

Probably the biggest development since I last blogged is that our relationship is finally well out into the open. This was a big step for us.

I’m going to go into more detail about that soon. Anyway, just wanted to say I’m lovin it and things are great!!

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As I mentioned in another post, our relationship has become much more public in recent times, and a lot of free time in December was spent visiting family and friends. We did not plan an official 25th fest (Christmas Day!). But in fact it kind of happened anyway!

Giving each other presents and having each other become closer to each other’s family was a very bonding experience. We had a lot of time off work and did a lot of sleepovers. We went back and forth between our houses; what Eve funnily called a “bed” crawl. I loved it!!

We also had some quiet movie / tea drinking nights to rest up between visits. Some of the most enjoyable evenings we’ve had. Christmas holidays this year was just incredible!!

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